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about butt plugs

Butt plugs or anal plugs are intended to be worn to create a feeling of fullness and can heighten pleasure during orgasm.

Possess Me handmade butt plugs are designed primarily as a very intimate piece of jewelry to ornament for yourself or your lover. Our plugs are generally very small and are relatively heavy as they are made of solid silver.

how to use a butt plug

  • > Remember that muscle relaxation and appropriate lubrication are the keys ingredients for safe and pleasurable butt plug usage.
  • > For hygiene reasons do not share anal jewelry or toys with others - the rule should be one butt plug, one butt.
  • > Always wash your your Possess Me butt plug with a mild disinfectant soap and polish with the appropriate metal polish before and after use and always rinse it thoroughly after (see general care details below for further information).
  • > As Possess Me butt plugs are made from silver and other precious metals, we do not recommend that you keep them inserted for extended periods (more than 4-6 hours) without cleaning them with metal polish and detergent and rinsing thoroughly.
  • > It is recommended that you always use a butt plug lasso around the narrowest part of the plug to assist with retrieval should it slip in further than it should. Learn more about using a butt plus lasso.
  • > The size and weight of Possess Me butt plugs may cause them to occasionally slip out for some wearers, particularly when being worn in an upright position. In this case, tightly fitting underwear may help or you may wish to create a soft rope harness with easy to undo knots to hold the butt plug in place.
  • > If your Possess Me butt plug features chains be careful not to pull on thsese - they are not designed to take any more weight or strain than a normal piece of fine jewelry.

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retrieving a butt plug which has slipped in too far:

  • > Do not push against the plug as this is will make matters worse.
  • > Relax your muscles as much as possible.
  • > If using a lasso, carefully grip it and pull on it gently, ensuring the loop around the plug tightens around the neck of the plug.
  • > If your Possess Me butt plug features chains, do not pull on these to try to retrieve a plug - they could break and make matters worse.
  • > It is a good idea to allow gravity to do its work as much as possible.
  • > If for some reason the lasso does not grip the plug, carefully try to take hold of the plug with your fingers and gently ease it out.
  • > If you or your partner are unable to retrieve the plug you must seek medical attention immediately - embarrassing, but essential.

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general care and use of your possess me products

cleaning & hygiene:

  • > Use of an appropriate metal polish every so often will keep our metal jewelry shiny and sparkly. If using a cloth to apply the polish, make sure it is a soft one designed for that purpose. Note that intimate products such as butt plugs should always be polished in this manner prior to use and during extended use.
  • > Always thoroughly rinse your Posess Me products if using a liquid polish to avoid getting any residue on sensitive skin. Also dry them after with a soft cloth.
  • > Always use mild disinfectant soap and other appropriate hygiene considerations with products which are used intimately - ideally both before and after use. Always rinse the products thoroughly after washing them to remove any soap residue.
  • > For hygiene reasons never share any items which are used intimately, particularly butt plugs or butt plug lassos.

chains:

  • > The silver chains used as part of Possess Me jewelry should be cleaned as per other silver (see above).
  • > Chains should never take any more weight or stress than you would expect of a normal piece of fine jewelry. They should never be pulled on when removing an item. This is particularly important when removing our butt plugs featuring chains.

gemstones:

  • > If your Possess Me products feature gemstones, take care when using metal polish as some polishes are not suitable to come into contact with some precious stones - check the label on your cleaning products before applying them and take care. The stones themselves can be cleaned with a gentle detergent and dried with a soft cloth.

ribbons:

  • > If your Possess Me products feature ribbons, they can be carefully washed with gentle detergent, rinsed and dried - preferably after being removed from the piece of jewelry. Add some salt to the detergent to reduce the loss of colour. You can then iron and even starch the ribbon.

feathers

  • > If your Possess Me products feature feathers, they are waterproof and can be steam cleaned over a boiling kettle or pot, being sure you take care not to burn yourself. Note that the feathers we use are often dyed and the dye can come out when they get wet. Take care not to let droplets of it get onto stainable surfaces and keep a cloth handy to soak up any droplets of dye.

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